Partner sex toys: why they’re not just for singles

Do you ever wonder whether there’s room for sex toys in a healthy, monogamous relationship? Even though it’s not something you usually talk about openly with your partner, there are plenty of reasons why you should consider using sex toys in a relationship.
Below you’ll find the top five ways sex toys can improve your sex life. Read on and you won’t regret introducing them into your bedroom.

Top 5 ways to try sex toys with your partner

1. You get to know yourself

A dildo or, for example, a vibrator can help a woman and give her the opportunity to explore her own body. This can be with or without her partner. The more she knows what turns her on, the better the orgasm. Some women also feel comfortable when their partner watches while they explore, while others prefer to play alone and later share a bit of that with their partner.

2. You get to know your partner

Sex toys give you an extra hand when you need it most. Pair a vibrator with oral sex, a wand with an intimate massage or use a bullet for erogenous-zone stimulation. Watch how your partner responds and see what works best. You can read more information and experiences with sex toys in the blog “Erotische producten: mijn favoriete speeltjes en ervaringen”.

3. You explore his prostate

Another reason to use sex toys is to give him some extra stimulation. The prostate is often called the male G-spot because of the intense orgasms that stimulation can produce. Specially designed male sex toys are the best way to explore this unknown but highly pleasurable spot.

4. You add them to partnered sex

A variety of toys – think penis rings, dildos and vibrators – can be used in combination with vaginal intercourse. The extra stimulation can intensify orgasms for both partners without taking the place of traditional lovemaking. Think of a toy as an enhancement, not a replacement.

5. You’ll fulfil your fantasies 

It’s that simple. Read, order and experience for yourself the added value of sex toys in the bedroom.

Additional information

Sex toys can also help you explore fantasies such as bondage, double penetration and threesomes. Start small, in a safe environment, and see what mood you’re in.
When both partners use them, sex toys can add depth to a healthy sexual relationship. Communication is essential. If your partner is hesitant, talk through their concerns and go over them together.